I say 'our' first week because, though Leyton is the only one actually attending school, it has been quite the education for all of us. An education that, unfortunately, is no where near complete. But we are trying. And one day we will all know lots of things that we didn't know before moving to Japan.
First day was rather nuts. Opening ceremonies for all new kids. All four of us went, though Ryan spent most of the day keeping Ellis out of trouble. Not that he really missed much though. We were there for about 2.5 hours and the only conversation I had that I understood was with the only other American mother there, who was just as lost as I was.
First we went to LC's class, found her seat and put away her supplies. Prior to class, I had to write her name, in Japanese, on EVERYTHING. Every crayon, every bag, every cup, every face mask. Leyton, of course, is 3 years old and can't even read English, so to help her out, all of her things have both her name and a little goldfish sticker. Each kid has a different sticker to help them find their cubby, chair, etc.
After the classroom, we all lined up and went upstairs to the auditorium. There was a puppet show, the teachers introduced themselves, everyone sang a song, and then we followed the teacher back down to the classroom. The teacher went over class 'rules' and then we all went outside and had a class photo taken.
The main thing we learned from Day One is that the Japanese dress up on the first day of school. ALL of the parents where in suits and dresses. Except the Americans.
Day 2: I dress Leyton in her uniform and she and I go to school. Ryan stayed back with Ellis because he had to fly late and didn't have to be in to work until later. I had no clue if I would be allowed/expected to stay with her in class. When we got there, we entered through the wrong entrance. The teacher nicely showed us which one to use. Leyton was wearing the wrong uniform. The teacher nicely showed me which one she should be wearing. And then she nicely told me to say good-bye and pick Leyton up at 11:25 (she only goes half days for the first two weeks). Leyton had a meltdown when I came back to get her. Mostly because she thought DoDo was in her backpack, and he wasn't. The teacher said she drank four large cups of water and asked if that is normal for her (it is not).
Day 3: Ellis, LC and I have to get to school by ourselves. Not a problem. It is exactly a 5 minute walk from our house. We drop her off in the correct uniform at the correct door and pick her up on time. She had another meltdown at pick up because she didn't want to wait in line to say good-bye to her teacher. There is an envelope in her backpack for tuition. It is due by the 8th of every month. This was April 10.
Day 4: Drop-off is no problem. I return the tuition envelop, complete with April tuition. Pick-up is also a breeze, though I was told not to let her wear Crocs because they are unsafe for running. Roger that. There were no tears at pick-up. She waited in line as patiently as a three-year-old can wait, gave her teacher a bow and a 'Sayonara,' and we were on our way home.
Her teacher is Ms. Mari Sano. I believe the kids call her Mari Sensei. She can speak English, which is very helpful, but she always starts with Japanese with Leyton, and then translates if needed. Several of the Japanese mothers have spoken to me as well. They always apologize for their 'bad English', which is very amusing to me. I am living in Japan and can't speak Japanese at all, and yet they apologize to me for not speaking perfect English.
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| This is the full uniform. A little big so she can wear it all 3 years. |
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| Modeling her mask and her school shoes. She leaves these in a cubby at school all week. When I drop her off in the morning, she goes and gets these, puts them on by herself, puts her other shoes in her cubby, and only then is she allowed in the classroom. On Friday, she brings her shoes home in her shoe bag. This weekend I will decorate them. All the other kids have cute designs on theirs. I will also sew a few things on her jacket and smock, so she can 'fit in.' And, if possible, I will go and look for another seat cover. I bought the wrong kind. Sigh. |
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| Her summer uniform. You can't tell from the pictures, but she is wearing knee-high socks. I think she will switch to white knee-highs in the summer. |
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| This is how I was supposed to dress her the first day, plus a cute pink cap. Three-year-olds are allowed to wear this to-and-from school the first few months until they get the hang of things. The older kids wear the formal uniform to school, change themselves into and then out-of this uniform, and go home in the formal one. |
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| No uniform is complete without a DoDo |
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| It's a lot of work, but I know it will be worth it. One day, she was say something to me, and I will have no idea what she is talking about. Not because of a speech impairment, but because she knows a language that I do not. On that day, it will all be worth it. |
Here is another account of Japanese Yochien, if you are interested. It highlights how amazing it is that I got her into school so quickly: http://www.education-in-japan.info/sub105.html